Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Whew! Another crazy day!

Well, Mom and I got to the 11:15 doctor's appointment at 10:50, and when we walked in, the appointment was over and had been for about 25 minutes. The transport got him there almost an hour early. We were able to chat with Dr. Zu anyway. Dr. Zu said that he thought Dad looked good, but he was wanting to push for more PT. I asked him why Dad was so confused, and he didn't really have an answer. I told him that Dad is able to speak very clearly and coherently, but the thought process behind it is just not right. He said he is just not sure why, but we should know more after the MRI in about a month. I also asked him about why Dad is always so cold, and he said that it is not a side effect of the medication...I think it is because his circulation is not good because he is in bed so much.

There were some problems with the return transport, and unfortunately, we had to wait around over an hour for him to get picked up. He did get to sit in the sun, where he got the warm sun on his back, and I got some extra time to file Dad's fingernails...A manicure in the sun.

The maid no-showed, but at least I got the house organized, which is a huge improvement to how it has been. So no biggie. But Mom felt bad, and she came over after Dad's appointment and did some dusting...I told her not to, but she said it made her feel like she was needed and that it made her feel good to do something for me, since I do so much for them. I appreciated it, and she says she feels better...I guess everybody's happy.

Dad was in his wheelchair most of the day. And, although confused, he was much more alert and inquisitive this evening. I spoke with his nurse about the transportation debacle, and asked if there is anyway we can try and get him out of bed everyday, even for an hour or two. I wish he would roll himself around...It would get him to use his arms more and help him with his coordination...One thing at a time I guess. His nurse said she would work with the other staff to try and get him up.

My Aunt came down for dinner with Dad. I picked Newman up from doggie day care and took him with me to Magnolia. Both Newman and Dad were exhausted from the day. I think they both will get good night's sleep tonight.

I wish you all sweet dreams, and wonderful night's sleep tonight!

Love to all.

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